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FUNERAL PLANNING WORKSHEET for ST. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
Please supply as much information as you wish to share.
Guide for the Christian Funeral of (full name: first middle (maiden) last)
Date(s) completed/ revised
This worksheet may be used by a bereaved family in the midst of funeral planning; or by individuals anticipating an impending death; orto express one's personal wishes for your own funeral. This worksheet may be revised at any time.
TO PLAN THE FUNERAL OF ANOTHER
In the event of a death, call the church before making any arrangements. Call the office directly at 616-891-8688 during working hoursor Pastor Miller’s cell at 616-915-2055.
TO EXPRESS WISHES FOR YOUR FUNERAL
You may choose to file this worksheet with the church. This information will be kept in a confidential file available to the pastors of St. Paul Lutheran Church and Preschool.
Also, after you complete the worksheet consider telling someone you trust about it. You may wish to discuss what you have written to becertain that it is clear. Consider providing copies for: 1) your family; 2) to file with your will; 3) your funeral home. Or simply give them anote that says, "As we have discussed, I have recorded my desires regarding my death and burial. I keep this information in the followingplace: ___________________________
(perhaps: on file at the church; with my will). At the time of my death, I ask that you use this formation to the extent possible. With gratitude," Then sign, date, and send the note.
Type of Worship Service
Funeral with coffin/urn present Memorial service without remains Graveside service only
St. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
8436 Kraft Ave., Caledonia, MI 49316
Website: www.stpaulcaledonia.org
Rev. David L. Miller, Assistant Pastor
Cell: 616.915.2055 Email: [email protected]
Care of the Body
Donate organs (Complete other documents.)
as transplants
for research
Donate body for research (with ashes returned) (Complete other documents)
Autopsy
none unless legally required
if it will benefit medical research
decision to be made by _ Embalm body (usually required if unrefrigerated over 24 hours before burial)
Cremate body
after visitation or service before visitation or service
Bury body
Other: _
(might include: burial at sea, above ground interment)
Expressions of Sympathy
Flowers Live plants
Other:
Memorials
Memorial gifts might be used to further support these ministries and organizations: Church foundation or endowment fund
Church memorial fund
specifically in the area of: (might include: capital projects; cooperative church-wide ministries; education; equipment; library; music; scholarships; transportation; worship resources; youth ministry)
Other:
Funeral HomePreferred company: _
(contact person, phone number)
Have pre-arrangements been made?
yes no
Type/cost of coffin/urn _ Type/cost of grave liner/vault Attire for burial/cremation
Jewelry or glasses remove for family
remove and donate bury with body
Include in coffin/urn
(Specific arrangements in advance at the funeral home of your choice are encouraged.)
Visitation
Visitation (at a time place different from the funeral service)
no
yes
Visitation location (A reduction in funeral homecharges may apply if no funeral home facilities are used. Consider the church as the location for all events.)
funeral home church
home
Visitation time
evening before funeral
day of funeral
Funeral Service
Location
Time
church funeral home
cemetery chapel
cemetery (no funeral, a graveside service only)
other:
morning afternoon evening
Remains present
yes
no (a memorial service)
On/near the casket/urn
funeral pall (baptismal symbol) coffin spray (flowers)
Bible or other symbol of faith:
photograph cross
flag (but not used inside the sanctuary during the service)
(The funeral pall will always be used to cover the casket during the worship service unless expressly declined. In this case consider abouquet of flowers from the family or a smaller coffin spray.)
Favorite Biblical theme or image
Biblical readings
Congregational hymns
(might include: favorites, baptismal or confirmation.)
Other music or non-biblical readings
Prayers Participants
Memories and tributes given by
Pall bearers (select 6)
Honorary pall bearers
Service folder cover (printed on parchment-colored paper)
Biblical or seasonal image (wheat, butterfly, cross, etc... )
line drawing of the church
Eligibility for military honors or death benefits yes
no Other notes
Lunch
Meal following the service for mutual conversation and consolation
yes no
Location
Church (hosted by St. Paul’s Ladies Aid)
other _
Biography / Obituary
On a separate document, record events, things, people, accomplishments, important to remember. Include as many full names, city of residence, birth and death dates, etc. as possible. List full name, birth name, parents, date and location of birth, baptism, confirmation, marriages, brothers and sisters, spouse(s), children, ministry in daily life, volunteer activities, military service, memberships, etc. This information does not need to be prepared in paragraph form. Include a photograph for publication.
Cemetery
I have made arrangements for my burial.
Name of cemetery
Location of cemetery
Contact person, phone Name of lot or crypt holder Easement or deed number Legal description of graves or crypts as shown on easement or deed
I am a lot holder and have made arrangements with the cemetery to assign graves to specific individuals. These arrangements are:
grave number assigned to relationship
I do not have arrangements for my burial. I suggest the following arrangements.
I have arrangements for a memorial marker with the following company:
(name, address, phone, contact person)
The arrangements are:
I do not have arrangements for a memorial marker. I would prefer the following (check first with the cemetery for specific regulations): You may wish to suggest a particular symbol or text.
Legalities
Identify location and date of will; and other legal documents _
Birth date _
Place of birth
Next of kin
Baptism date
Place of baptism Marital status Marriages/divorces/ spouse(s)
Social Security number Attorney/will preparer Insurance companies/agents
Bank accounts
Pension accounts Property & real estate _______________________________________________________________
Other ____________________________________________________________________________
Power of attorney _ Executor of estate (include phone numbers of individuals; indicate if you have not prepared a will)
Additional Comments
St. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
8436 Kraft Ave., Caledonia, MI 49316
Website: www.stpaulcaledonia.org
Rev. David L. Miller, Assistant Pastor
Cell: 616.915.2055 Email: [email protected]
FUNERAL PLANNING WORKSHEET for ST. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
Please supply as much information as you wish to share.
Guide for the Christian Funeral of (full name: first middle (maiden) last)
Date(s) completed/ revised
This worksheet may be used by a bereaved family in the midst of funeral planning; or by individuals anticipating an impending death; orto express one's personal wishes for your own funeral. This worksheet may be revised at any time.
TO PLAN THE FUNERAL OF ANOTHER
In the event of a death, call the church before making any arrangements. Call the office directly at 616-891-8688 during working hoursor Pastor Miller’s cell at 616-915-2055.
TO EXPRESS WISHES FOR YOUR FUNERAL
You may choose to file this worksheet with the church. This information will be kept in a confidential file available to the pastors of St. Paul Lutheran Church and Preschool.
Also, after you complete the worksheet consider telling someone you trust about it. You may wish to discuss what you have written to becertain that it is clear. Consider providing copies for: 1) your family; 2) to file with your will; 3) your funeral home. Or simply give them anote that says, "As we have discussed, I have recorded my desires regarding my death and burial. I keep this information in the followingplace: ___________________________
(perhaps: on file at the church; with my will). At the time of my death, I ask that you use this formation to the extent possible. With gratitude," Then sign, date, and send the note.
Type of Worship Service
Funeral with coffin/urn present Memorial service without remains Graveside service only
St. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
8436 Kraft Ave., Caledonia, MI 49316
Website: www.stpaulcaledonia.org
Rev. David L. Miller, Assistant Pastor
Cell: 616.915.2055 Email: [email protected]
Care of the Body
Donate organs (Complete other documents.)
as transplants
for research
Donate body for research (with ashes returned) (Complete other documents)
Autopsy
none unless legally required
if it will benefit medical research
decision to be made by _ Embalm body (usually required if unrefrigerated over 24 hours before burial)
Cremate body
after visitation or service before visitation or service
Bury body
Other: _
(might include: burial at sea, above ground interment)
Expressions of Sympathy
Flowers Live plants
Other:
Memorials
Memorial gifts might be used to further support these ministries and organizations: Church foundation or endowment fund
Church memorial fund
specifically in the area of: (might include: capital projects; cooperative church-wide ministries; education; equipment; library; music; scholarships; transportation; worship resources; youth ministry)
Other:
Funeral HomePreferred company: _
(contact person, phone number)
Have pre-arrangements been made?
yes no
Type/cost of coffin/urn _ Type/cost of grave liner/vault Attire for burial/cremation
Jewelry or glasses remove for family
remove and donate bury with body
Include in coffin/urn
(Specific arrangements in advance at the funeral home of your choice are encouraged.)
Visitation
Visitation (at a time place different from the funeral service)
no
yes
Visitation location (A reduction in funeral homecharges may apply if no funeral home facilities are used. Consider the church as the location for all events.)
funeral home church
home
Visitation time
evening before funeral
day of funeral
Funeral Service
Location
Time
church funeral home
cemetery chapel
cemetery (no funeral, a graveside service only)
other:
morning afternoon evening
Remains present
yes
no (a memorial service)
On/near the casket/urn
funeral pall (baptismal symbol) coffin spray (flowers)
Bible or other symbol of faith:
photograph cross
flag (but not used inside the sanctuary during the service)
(The funeral pall will always be used to cover the casket during the worship service unless expressly declined. In this case consider abouquet of flowers from the family or a smaller coffin spray.)
Favorite Biblical theme or image
Biblical readings
Congregational hymns
(might include: favorites, baptismal or confirmation.)
Other music or non-biblical readings
Prayers Participants
Memories and tributes given by
Pall bearers (select 6)
Honorary pall bearers
Service folder cover (printed on parchment-colored paper)
Biblical or seasonal image (wheat, butterfly, cross, etc... )
line drawing of the church
Eligibility for military honors or death benefits yes
no Other notes
Lunch
Meal following the service for mutual conversation and consolation
yes no
Location
Church (hosted by St. Paul’s Ladies Aid)
other _
Biography / Obituary
On a separate document, record events, things, people, accomplishments, important to remember. Include as many full names, city of residence, birth and death dates, etc. as possible. List full name, birth name, parents, date and location of birth, baptism, confirmation, marriages, brothers and sisters, spouse(s), children, ministry in daily life, volunteer activities, military service, memberships, etc. This information does not need to be prepared in paragraph form. Include a photograph for publication.
Cemetery
I have made arrangements for my burial.
Name of cemetery
Location of cemetery
Contact person, phone Name of lot or crypt holder Easement or deed number Legal description of graves or crypts as shown on easement or deed
I am a lot holder and have made arrangements with the cemetery to assign graves to specific individuals. These arrangements are:
grave number assigned to relationship
I do not have arrangements for my burial. I suggest the following arrangements.
I have arrangements for a memorial marker with the following company:
(name, address, phone, contact person)
The arrangements are:
I do not have arrangements for a memorial marker. I would prefer the following (check first with the cemetery for specific regulations): You may wish to suggest a particular symbol or text.
Legalities
Identify location and date of will; and other legal documents _
Birth date _
Place of birth
Next of kin
Baptism date
Place of baptism Marital status Marriages/divorces/ spouse(s)
Social Security number Attorney/will preparer Insurance companies/agents
Bank accounts
Pension accounts Property & real estate _______________________________________________________________
Other ____________________________________________________________________________
Power of attorney _ Executor of estate (include phone numbers of individuals; indicate if you have not prepared a will)
Additional Comments
St. Paul Lutheran Church & Preschool
8436 Kraft Ave., Caledonia, MI 49316
Website: www.stpaulcaledonia.org
Rev. David L. Miller, Assistant Pastor
Cell: 616.915.2055 Email: [email protected]
